“I broke my promise to my husband…”
Influencer and actress Choi Ye Seul, who married MBLAQ‘s G.O, revealed that she had been ghosted by a former fan after lending them cash.
On April 25, Choi Ye Seul revealed the information by her Instagram publish.
In her publish, the actress begins by stating that when she first married her husband, that they had promised one another by no means to borrow or lend cash.
After I first married my husband, we made just a few guidelines. As a result of a lot of them are apparent ones, I’ll inform you one. We promised one another to by no means borrow cash and to by no means lend individuals cash. Though we may give cash to individuals, we promised by no means to lend it.
— Choi Ye Seul
The influencer continued by stating that she not too long ago had damaged that promise and had let an acquaintance borrow cash.
I’m undecided why a younger couple spoke about this, however the frequent tales about individuals who lend out cash, solely to later beg for his or her a refund, made a giant impression on me. Regardless of this, I broke the promise, and I grew to become the individual begging (for the return of their cash).
— Choi Ye Seul
Choi Ye Seul then revealed that the acquaintance she had lent out cash to was somebody that she had been grateful for. In keeping with the influencer, the individual was a former fan that she grew to become near over time.
There’s a group of mates which have favored me for a very long time and who I’m grateful for. They made a fan cafe for me once I was an actress and wrote me letters and made stunning photos for me. They had been individuals who gave me energy. After I give up being an actress and have become a YouTuber, they, fortunately, supported me. I requested just a few memorable individuals for his or her cellphone numbers, and though not typically, I wished to specific my thanks by sending them reward emoticons and asking how they had been doing.
— Choi Ye Seul
Choi Ye Seul then said that certainly one of her followers then DMed her and requested to borrow cash, a request she obliged. However when the day the fan promised to pay her again arrived, the fan had ghosted her.
There was one individual out of this group who would shut her social media accounts when their psychological well being suffered. A few days in the past, I obtained a DM during which they stated they had been in pressing want of cash. They informed me they might pay me again by Monday. After debating, I lent them a small sum of money. I trusted my buddy and broke the promise to my husband.
When the promised day arrived, and I requested how they had been doing, the state of affairs was like I feared. Regardless of being energetic on social media, the individual didn’t reply to my texts and immediately turned their account non-public. Though I’m saying this after the very fact, if they didn’t make me beg for the cash, I wouldn’t have obtained the cash out of guilt that I couldn’t assist them extra.
— Choi Ye Seul
Choi Ye Seul then expressed remorse and regret for breaking her promise to her husband and never with the ability to assist the fan extra. The influencer goes on to want her fan the most effective in life and for them to be completely satisfied.
For the reason that promised day, which was yesterday, I’ve been blaming myself. I broke my promise to my husband. That’s the reason I really feel even worse. It’s okay (if the fan) by no means contacts me once more, they usually don’t have to return the cash. And I’m sincerely sorry that I couldn’t assist them out extra. I hope the remainder of their days are stuffed with happiness. Thanks for supporting me till now, and I’m sincerely grateful.
Lastly, this incident taught me that if our acquaintances requested to borrow cash, I couldn’t lend it to them. Not solely can we not have the cash, I hate begging after lending it out, and I hate blaming myself for it.
— Choi Ye Seul
In the meantime, Choi Ye Seul married her husband, G.O, after one yr of relationship in 2019. The couple runs a YouTube channel collectively the place they actively interact with followers.